Own That You Are Feeling Homesick
Missing family and friends, and feeling sad are natural responses to leaving home.

Talk About It
Talk with your RA (resident assistant), First Year Experience (FYE) mentor, a friend, a parent, a brother or a sister who has experienced leaving home.

Keep in Touch
You may call home a lot during the first week or two. It is okay to share with your family the fact that you miss them. Try to decrease phone calls after the first couple of weeks. You can increase email messages by describing your activities and experiences. Share how important it is for you to hear back from the people you care most about.

Bring Things That Will Help You Feel at Home
Bring pictures of family, friends and animals. Bring stuffed animals, comforters, pillows, etc. to help ease the transition from home to St. Norbert College.

Give Yourself Time
It may be unrealistic to stop missing home after the first week at school. Realize that new situations take time to get used to and that you will probably always miss home to some extent. After a while, intense feelings of homesickness will subside.

Give Yourself Permission to Not Be Perfect
Wouldn’t all of us like to be popular, well-adjusted and earn all As? That doesn’t happen, even for those who look like they have it all together. Give yourself permission to make mistakes and enjoy the journey as much as the destination.

Share Your Journey With New People
Ask someone from your residence hall or a class to go along with you as you explore the campus and the De Pere community. Begin making St. Norbert College more familiar to you.

Set a Date to Visit Home
Long weekend is usually the first weekend in October. This four-day break is an ideal chance for you to get away from school without feeling as if you are falling behind in your classes.

Invite Your Family to Campus
Family Weekend is a great time to invite your family to visit your new home! This popular annual event provides parents with a glimpse of their student’s life at St. Norbert. The weekend coincides with SNC Day, the college’s biggest annual celebration. There’s no better time to experience the very best of what our campus and the surrounding community have to offer together.

Be Proactive
Don’t ignore your feelings by just wishing they would go away. Trying to ignore your feelings now will often result in other symptoms – stomachaches, lack of motivation, fatigue, drinking alcohol, depression, anxiety, etc. The Health & Wellness Center is a great resource for you to use. We can help you come up with healthy ideas to deal with the feelings you are experiencing.

Get Support & Get Involved
The more places you go and the more things you do, the more people you will meet. Get involved in your favorite activity or try out a new one. Ask how different offices and committees support students. Some places to check out are Residential Education and Housing (REH), Campus Ministry and ALIVE to name a few. Check out the Involvement Fair that is held in front of the Campus Center in the first few weeks of school to learn more about the 90 social groups and organizations on campus.